How And Where To Meet Eligible Men

How And Where To Meet Eligible Men
by Tycoon2k




How And Where To Meet Eligible Men


So you're a woman looking for a man... First off, you have to
"know" what kind of man you're looking for, and then go wherever
it is you'll most likely find that kind of man...

What kind of man are you looking for? It's a new world we live
in, and believe it or not, you can find whatever kind of man it
is you want! If you're looking for a husband, a meal ticket, a
sugar-daddy, a lover, a father, or a companion - there's a man
out there for you. The problem is, of course, to find the man
that has enough of "all the things you want in a man" to satisfy
you.

There are lots of eligible men available, and with just a little
bit of intelligence, there's no honest reason why any woman
wanting a man cannot find the man of her choice. The thing is,
as mentioned already - you've got to know what kind of man you
want, and where you'll most likely find him - and then, reach
for him.

Men are just like women - they want a woman they can belong to,
and call their own. People have to interact with other people in
order to maintain a healthy equilibrium; and men have to
interact with women on a personal basis in order to go on
living. These are undeniable facts relative to the nature of
human beings.

Most men have the same kind of shyness, inhibitions, and fears
of rejection that women have - the only difference being that
the male of our species has been trying to cope with these
feelings in regards to meeting women, a lot longer than women
have in regard to meeting men. But it's a new world - there's a
lot more women out looking for men - and a lot of men seem to be
caught up in their own problems, and unaware of the eligible
women around that might like to become acquainted with them.
Thus, it's now necessary for a woman to make the first move when
she spots a man that interests her and he doesn't make that
first move.

What we're saying is simply this: Nowadays, whenever and
wherever you spot a man that you'd like to get to know, and for
whatever reasons, he doesn't seem to notice you, for sure, you
should make that first move towards becoming acquainted. Say
you're at a dance and you spot a man that interests you, by all
means don't be hesitant to walk over and ask him if he'd like to
dance with you. Or should you be having coffee somewhere and you
spot a special man, simply tell him that you don't like being
alone and would he like to join you.

Really, there's honestly nothing out-of-line or brazen about
spotting a man that interests you, walking up to him, and
telling him you find him appealing enough that you'd like to
find out more about him. Most men will be flattered by your
attentions, and if they are the kind of man you "sized" them up
to be, they'll appreciate your breaking the ice for them. One
other thing to understand - women are almost always "looking
for" men while most men are where they are, doing what they are
doing, for any one of a million different reasons.

In essence, you meet eligible men by frequenting the places
you're most-likely to find the kind of man you want to meet. You
have to make yourself available. Then too, if you spot a man you
think might be one that you'd like to get to know better and he
doesn't make the first move towards the two of you becoming
acquainted, you should make that first move.

It's as simple as that. In most instances, the same fear and
shyness - maybe even embarrassment - you're feeling, is haunting
the man, and unless one of you makes that first move, another
opportunity will have slipped through your fingers. Don't be
afraid to walk right up to a man and tell him: You look as
though you're all alone - do you want to talk for a minute or
two...

We know of some women looking for men, perhaps because of an
inability to just walk up to a man and start talking or maybe
just because they have a flair for innovative approaches to the
idea, have had business cards printed up, and hand them out to
the men they see that look interesting to them. The wording on
the one that most appealed to us was as follows: Hello there...
Please forgive my intrusion, but you strike me as someone I
should know. My name is Mary Anderson, and if you've got a spare
minute or two, you might give me a call at 123-4567...

You've got to have it firmly in your mind, the kind of man you
want to meet. Then you've got to make yourself available in the
kind of places that kind of man is most-likely to frequent.

Most assuredly, when you search for such a man, you should look,
dress, and act according to what you feel will most appeal to
that type of man. All men notice a woman who looks good, so you
should do whatever is necessary to bring out your best features
- a little make-up in the right places, a new hairstyle, a few
figure-flattering clothes - and the kind of conduct that you
feel will appeal to your kind of man.

Now then, the easiest and surest way of meeting eligible men is
through the social activities of your local "singles" club such
as Parents Without Partners, Singles International, and
Servetus. Most such groups sponsor regular dances, dinner
parties, rap sessions, and any number of other activities
designed to bring divorced and/or single people together.

Lonely Hearts Correspondence Clubs are okay, but then.. meeting
someone via correspondence, and learning to love them as result
of what they write in their letters to you, is sometimes
disappointing and a hard situation to get out of when you
finally do meet them face-to-face.

Most of the Date-A-Mate services are okay, particularly those
that employ video tape interviews, but the prices you pay for
their introductions are beyond reason. Generally, the success
rate of these services - that of matching you with a man that
you end marrying, and staying married to him - is less than
10-percent. Some of them are just glorified "dating or escort"
services.

Attending church in search of an eligible man sometimes works
out, especially if the church sponsors dances, parties and group
outings. However, there's not as many eligible men going to
church in search of eligible women these days as there used to
be.

If you have an outgoing personality and enjoy the whole scene,
you can generally find lots of eligible men in the bars and
taverns. The thing is, you have to "find" the bars or taverns
that are frequented by the age group and kind of men that meet
your needs.

You'll find a lot of "more financially secure" men in the better
"motor inn" and hotel bars. About all you have to do is drop by
and join in all the action when there's a convention or
gathering of people from out of town in one of these places.
It's then that you'll find many of the "local eligibles" out on
the town, plus of course a lot of men from out of town who are
looking for women. In this kind of situation, most of the man
will make the first move and once you become acquainted, they
won't be in any big hurry to make any real commitments.

To find the action - where there's sure to be lots of eligible
men - look in your local newspaper... Look for advertisements
announcing square dances, neighborhood picnics, travel tours,
and of course, festivals or similar special events. When you go
to one of these activities, you've got to mingle with the people
there, keep your eyes open for a man that may be the one you're
looking for, and then - do your thing to become acquainted with
him. Once you spot a man you'd like to become acquainted with,
it's basically all up to you whether you do or don't.

Another one of the surest places of meeting eligible men is in
the evening classes at your local colleges. If you're not
familiar with their services, just give the college office a
call and ask them to put you on their mailing list for bulletins
and notices of up-coming classes being offered.

Most colleges are now offering any number of seminars, classes
and even short courses designed to help people rebuilding their
lives after a divorce. These classes are always well-attended,
and those that attend are eligible. One of the best ways of
meeting new friends while improving yourself.

Finally, and by all means, enlist the help of your friend and
co-workers in helping you to meet new men. Tell them you'll be
happy to come to their parties if they'll invite some of the
eligible men they or their friends know. And then, you should
have few parties, invite your friends and ask them to bring
along or invite some of their unattached male friends.

Work is generally an easy place to become acquainted with
eligible men, but there are any number of risks involved - such
as those that are already married. The important thing is to
make your self available - know what kind of man you want - and
then do what is necessary to meet him.



How And Where To Meet Eligible Men
by Tycoon2k