Online Dating

Friday, September 25, 2009

Online Dating Tips for Women

Online Dating Tips for Women

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Women in search for a knight in shining armor in real life
dating should not lower her standards while searching
online.


She should keep her dream of having a prince charming to
the rescue. But having big dreams does not mean being too
selective.

Women should be selective but they should not limit their
options exactly to their ideal man. Limiting your options
will decrease the possibility of having a good catch.

Create an interesting profile. This is one way to attract
your prince charming. The content of your profile should be
honest and true if you are looking for someone who’ll be
you’re partner for a long and intimate relationship.

Thus, put something on your profile that can make a good
first impression. This impression should also last a
lifetime. Keep in mind to upload a photo with your most
attractive smile.

Avoid overly sexual photos - upload sexy photos, but limit
it to PG13 viewing.

Let’s include your safety. Make sure your common sense is
working well. Do not give your personal home address to
your online date. If you plan to meet up somewhere, have
someone to accompany you or know about your plans.

If uneasiness is felt while being with your date, you have
the right to stop and cut all contact off between the both
of you. It is better to be safe than sorry.

Online dating is a rapidly growing activity. Better hurry
and carry on these tips to start your wonderful search for
your partner.

The Right Time to Kiss Your Date

The Right Time to Kiss Your Date

Some men may not know or do not have the slightest idea if
a woman is ready to be kissed. These men may be sitting
beside their dates talking too much they suddenly realize
how the lips of their dates are so kissable.


Their imagination will then take control, but this would
also mean disaster if done wrong. This may often leave
these men without a second chance for another date with the
woman.

If a guy finds himself talking to a girl and wondering if
she’s ready to be kissed, he may softly touch her hair and
give a compliment about it.

If the girl shows a favorable reaction, this may be a sign
of getting closer to a kiss. Get closer and try reaching
for her hair again.

Touch the hair tips and simply gaze on her lips and eyes.
The fact that she does not mind about you getting closer to
her is a sign that she is comfortable. This is a sign for a
guy to go and kiss the girl.

Some guys try to go out on an adventurous date in order to
make the kissing move more suave and natural. One
particular example is a guy who usually takes a girl to a
small boat ride on a river.

Upon sailing along the river, he happens to direct the boat
to a place covered with trees and fireflies - truly a
romantic place to kiss.

A guy can also take her date to some ancient ruins in a
local spot and manage to spend time walking until dark.
These ruins usually light up at night.

The guy can take his date to the top of the ruins where
they can see the city all beautifully lit up. This is when
the guy should make a move and kiss his date.

Making Dates More Enjoyable and Fun

Making Dates More Enjoyable and Fun

Most people are usually nervous when it comes to their
first dates. This can make you look like someone who had
taken gallons of coffee before the date.


Long silence is always between your conversations with your
date, and you are hoping to come up with a few funny lines
that can crack the ice.

But sometimes, you’re too late because your date has
decided to spend her time with someone else.

Usually, first dates are spent in places where you can sit
and talk with your date in order to know each other better.

Some go to the movies, have some coffee at the local coffee
house, or dine in an expensive restaurant so as to impress
their dates.

Dates like these just need a little jump-start to be more
effective. Try adding some adventure or do a set of
enjoyable activities together in order to have fun with
your dates.

Some men take their dates to an adventurous place. They go
to a few local destinations or historical places within the
area. They go around these places whilst having so much to
see and many things to talk about. These are times when you
don’t need a funny line to break the silence.

In case of rain, you can’t go out and have a walk at the
local park or other outdoor spots conducive for talking and
knowing each other better.

On the brighter side of things, you can go indoors. Try
some shopping malls. There, you can find a wide variety of
places to have some coffee.

Drinking coffee doesn’t take four hours or so of sitting
and doing nothing since you can talk to your date and get
to know her better.

After some time, try inviting your date for a walk at the
mall. Go shop for small things with her such as clothes and
CDs.

Save some time to go bowling, play video games, or find a
bookstore to share your interests with her. The main idea
is to interact with your date in order to know her better.

This will surely provide you with a means to bolster your
chances of landing a date that can lead to love and romance
in the long run.

With this in mind, go and check out places near you for fun
activities you and your date will surely enjoy.

Online Dating Tips for Men

Online Dating Tips for Men



So you’ve just joined an online dating community. Do not be
discouraged when your prospect dates have not yet responded
to your queries.


Women members of online dating portals receive an average
of fifty to 200 queries from other members of the opposite
sex. This means she’s just taking time going through all
the queries she had received. You need to be a bit more
patient.

Have a proactive approach when it comes to online dating.
Focusing on one woman would reduce your chances of landing
a response.

Try sending messages to different women in order to bolster
the probabilities of getting a good response.

Carefully choosing your would-be dates is a good thing to
do since this would help you land the dates who have the
same interests as yours. However, don’t be too selective.

You have to try creating a unique profile when sending
messages. Make it stand out because there will be a lot of
messages for one woman from other members of the online
dating community.

Starting out with an interesting username is favorable. In
addition, read through the profiles of your intended
partners in order to incorporate a few things they like on
your own profile, but keep in mind to include just the
things you are actually interested in.

By doing so, your prospective partners will read through
your profile after receiving a query from you and end up
remembering you because of the stuff that’s on your
profile.

She may even feel that you took the time to read through
her profile and subsequently establish a connection with
her.

Be truthful about the things you put on your profile. Lying
about stuff will just ruin your entire reputation in the
online dating community.

In addition, it will be harder to correct lies whenever you
and your dates have known each other better. It would also
prevent you from enjoying while you’re on a date with the
other members of the online dating community because you’ll
be too careful to cover up all the lies you’ve told your
dates before you got to go out on a date with them.

Kissing Tips on a Date

Usually, you shouldn’t go all out with a kiss at the end of
a first date. First date kisses mostly involve light pecks
at the cheeks or even on the lips. These kisses should only
be allowed once you feel comfortable enough with your date.


The right time to kiss is usually the most romantic moments
of the date. When you feel that you’re close enough to your
date while having fun doing a set of adventurous
activities, this might be the right time to kiss.

If you’re talking while having a quiet walk at the park and
you notice that he’s looking directly at your eyes, this is
usually another one of those right kissing moments.

Try to look at his eyes and see if he’s sincere enough to
give you a light kiss on the lips. You’ll usually feel if
it’s just the right time to kiss.

Sharing moments are usually the best times to kiss on a
date, especially if you’re talking about something
personal.

The situation doesn’t need to be dramatic and serious to
kiss. The right moment to kiss during these sharing moments
is when you feel comfortable sharing your personal
perceptions and experiences with your date.

At the end of the date, you can give him a light peck at
the cheeks if you had fun with him on your first date after
he has taken you home safe and sound.

You can give him a friendly kiss on the lips if you happen
to have fun with him again on your second date. Afterwards,
a fertile imagination is all you need when it comes to the
kisses you’ll be having on your succeeding dates.