Make Your Blind Date Successful

Make Your Blind Date Successful


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A Blind date is very much similar to any other date, except that you have to be extremely conscious and careful about everything on a blind date. You want your first date to go well so that there can be a second and a third date and so on. If you want to find a great date and want your blind date to be successful in the first attempt then keep reading on, this article was written just for you.

Try to be more understanding, more fun and more impressive in every matter than your date. Show that you are very confident about your goals in life and you want to achieve them no matter what happens. Also try to show that you are interested in knowing your date better. Bring up topics of your interest and extend them to what they like to discuss and what they enjoy the most.

Your appearance matters a lot on a blind date. Because you two are meeting for the first time, you want to leave a positive impression about your dressing sense and your overall appearance. Make-up, shoes, jewelry and all other accessories come under this category and they all contribute to your overall look. Choose things that are less likely to catch attention at first, but once noticed they look beautiful and elegant. Try to spend some time getting ready and pay attention to every little detail about your appearance. We all know that hard work shows, and your date will be flattered by the fact that you have put a great deal of effort into your appearance just to impress them.

Before agreeing to someone who wants to set you up with a person they think is just perfect for you, make sure the person setting you up is someone you trust. If they don’t know you that much, they might try to set you up with a total opposite or someone you would never feel comfortable with. To save yourself from embarrassment always plan a blind date in a crowded place. The best place for a blind date is the theatre. You can also see your date’s reactions to certain things and know how they feel about the whole set up.

Always be positive when going on a blind date. Remember you want it to be successful, so try your best to make it successful. Don’t be shy and express your view points honestly and without any hesitation. Sometimes the other person will have to make compromises and offer other ways to putting things just to avoid an argument. This way you will know how caring and thoughtful they really are.

Making a blind date successful doesn’t always mean being offered future dates. Sometimes when you think you are not compatible with the other person, you have to tell them so. If two people don’t click as lovers, they can always end up being good friends. So end your blind date appropriately. Sometimes it’s important to know the true feelings of your partner. Winning a second date is not your goal. Your goal is to find a great date, but if they don’t find you attractive and they are just making sympathetic offers of meeting again, you can refuse politely to avoid any future embarrassments. If however, you have truly enjoyed your blind date and you think your partner has enjoyed it too, then offer to meet again straight forwardly.

For a blind date to go well, you have to keep in mind not to end it up pre-maturely. Also don’t try to extend it beyond normal hours. Just spend a short quality time together and let things flow in a natural manner. 3 to 4 hours are sufficient to know each other quite well and decide what you want. If your date is interested, you will know by their body language and the way they want to end the date.

Another important thing to keep in mind is to treat your date the way you would treat any other normal person you are dating for the first time. Remember to be courteous, offer help if things aren’t going too well, avoid embarrassing situations with good humor and most of all don’t look down upon them if they are not dressed up the way you would have liked them to. Just be positive about everything and always remember that you have to make it successful yourself.

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